This morning the intense Texas summer sun came through my bedroom window, and I so just wanted to bury my face back into my pillow. But I knew I had get up, the day and all its activities were waiting, and there was this resolve in me that … it would be a good day. So with everyone in the … More Because Today, I Can
Sometimes you can just spend a couple of hours with someone, but it can change the way you see the rest of your life. A couple of weekends ago, on a trip back to California, I visited my eighty-something year old aunt who is now living in a home for those with memory loss. She has … More What I am Remembering From the One Who is Forgetting
It’s a good thing to remember that not all beautiful stories are pretty. Several winters ago, I noticed our toilet was leaking. We tried to fix it ourselves, but soon realized we needed some professional help. Hector came highly recommended. I called his number, and though his wife (also his receptionist) told us he was booked, he came that same day. I opened the … More Kindness Echoes
We adopted Summer a month ago. She was the last of a litter of seven Chihuahua Terrier pups, and unfortunately, no one wanted her. When we brought her home, we understood why. At first, it was endearing to have this melancholy nine-month-old puppy in our home. “Oh she looks so sad,” we’d say. “Look, she won’t … More Because She Stayed
Now that I think about it, it was really only this fence, this divider between our homes, that connected us. You see, my neighbor and I seemed to have nothing in common except for a fence. The truth is that I never knew her. We never enjoyed any neighborly talk. She never asked about the kids. We … More The Day the Fence Fell
It’s hard not to see her. We’re stopped at a gas station on one of the crowded avenues in San Francisco. I watch her as she digs bare-handed through the garbage can. I see her dirt filled fingernails pull out empty plastic water bottles. She shakes out the water, dirt, or whatever else is in them, and stashes them … More She Needs Five Cents
When it’s hard to believe in miracles… In the hope of change… In overcoming… In transformations and new beginnings… In healing… When our spirit is willing, but our flesh is frail… When joy is illusive; victory, distant… And wonder has lost its shimmer… I am stopped by this. A tree just outside my door. A … More What’s So Ordinary?